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G            ita every day; but off course              down from our mighty exotic life style


                                                                                                                                                that was a different time.
                                                                                                                                                                                          and utterly unprepared for the basic life
                                                                                                                                                                                          of  sustenance,  deprived  of  the  usual

                                                                                                                                                                                          luxuries of life we have gotten used to.
                                                                                                                                   Undoubtedly  it  was  tough  for  me,  I

                                                                                                                                   mean, to even think of following in his                Now, there is a dire need of evaluation of
                                                                                                                                   footsteps,  but I always had the feeling               our  real  needs  in  life;  the  need  of

                                                                                                                                   that he did honestly try to nurture me in              support  and  understanding  from  our

                                                                                                                                   his own ways imparting his realization                 close relations to meet our emotional
                                                                                                                                   and trying to tend to my tender roots.                 n e e d s ,   t h e   n e e d   f o r   d e r i v i n g

                                                                                                                                   His  sincerity  and  persistence  was  the             contentment  from  a  simpler  way  of

                                                                                                                                   kind of selessness I rarely came across               living,  engaging  in  understanding  the
                                                                                                                                   in my later life, generations of parental              ideology of our forefathers that could
                                                                           M               y  grandfather  used                    gures  after  him  simply  thrived  on                give them so much strength of mind to


                                                                                                                                   excess  of  indulgence,  anxiety,  utter
                                                                                                                                                                                          believe  in  peaceful  harmonious
                                                                                           to  say,”  aim  for  the
                                                                                           sky  if  you  wish,  but

                                                                                                                                   were either excessively emotional and
                                                                                                                                                                                          extravagance.
                                                                           make  sure  your  roots  are  deep                      confusion  and  indecisiveness.  They                  e x i ste n ce   e v e n   w i t h o u t   m u c h
                                                                           and on rm grounds”. He would                           paranoid  or  heartlessly  rigid  and
                                                                           pay a visit, walking all the way                        schizoid.                                              We have the intelligence and the ardor
                                                                                                                                                                                          to strive for new horizons. We just don't
                                                                           from his house every Sunday to
                                                                                                                                   Whatever  may  be  the  reason  for  it,               have the experience of a life which can
                                                                           make  me  understand  the
                                                                                                                                   blame  it  on  the  drastically  changing              be more sustainable at the onset of any
                                                                           Mahabharata  and  a  bit  of
                                                                                                                                   societal  equations  or  evolving  and                 disaster  and  that's  how  I  remembered
                                                                           Sanskrit. He even taught me to be
                                                                                                                                   more  demanding  needs  of  life,  if  you             my grand father and his zeal to impart
                                                                           frugal  in  life,  to  learn  to  invest                may,  the  new  generations  that                      the basic skills of life that can at least
           The Lost                                                        money  and  save  a  part  of  my                       followed were fast drifting away from                  give me an open mind to adopt to any


                                                                           income, and leisure for him was
                                                                                                                                   our core value system.                                 surprises that my world could throw at
                                                                           gaining  knowledge  by  reading
                   World                                                   our  scriptures  and  classics,                         Now,  as  we  stand  facing  an  invisible             me. I wonder how loved we felt when we



                                                                           listening  to  good  music;  with  a                    terror that is threatening to wipe out                 all  cousins  gathered  around  our
                                                                           fair amount of physical activity.                       our existence and everything that we so                grandmother  in  the  late  evenings  to
                       Anindita Bose                                       He lived till the age of 94; always                     dearly value, we are so perplexed and                  listen to stories when there was a power


                        psychological counsellor                           tending to his own needs, never                         overwhelmed that we dare not look at                   cut. I'm sure we can feel it now too, if
                        aninditab.0@gmail.com                                                                                                                                             only we decide to give each other that
                                                                           ecstatic  with  joy  or  down  with                     the bare reality that is taunting us. We
                                                                           remorse,  believing  in  simple                         are simply oating in midair, tumbling                 time,  away  from  our  social  media
                                                                           living and reciting the Bhagavat                                                                               devices.
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