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G             ita every day; but off course              down from our mighty exotic life style


                      that was a different time.
                                                                and utterly unprepared for the basic life
                                                                of  sustenance,  deprived  of  the  usual

                                                                luxuries of life we have gotten used to.
        Undoubtedly  it  was  tough  for  me,  I

        mean, to even think of following in his                 Now, there is a dire need of evaluation of
        footsteps,  but I always had the feeling                our  real  needs  in  life;  the  need  of

        that he did honestly try to nurture me in               support  and  understanding  from  our

        his own ways imparting his realization                  close relations to meet our emotional
        and trying to tend to my tender roots.                  n e e d s ,   t h e   n e e d   f o r   d e r i v i n g

        His  sincerity  and  persistence  was  the              contentment  from  a  simpler  way  of

        kind of selessness I rarely came across                living,  engaging  in  understanding  the
        in my later life, generations of parental               ideology of our forefathers that could
 M  y  grandfather  used   gures  after  him  simply  thrived  on   give them so much strength of mind to


        excess  of  indulgence,  anxiety,  utter
                                                                believe  in  peaceful  harmonious
 to  say,”  aim  for  the
 sky  if  you  wish,  but

        were either excessively emotional and
                                                                extravagance.
 make  sure  your  roots  are  deep   confusion  and  indecisiveness.  They   e x i ste n ce   e v e n   w i t h o u t   m u c h
 and on rm grounds”. He would   paranoid  or  heartlessly  rigid  and
 pay a visit, walking all the way   schizoid.                   We have the intelligence and the ardor
                                                                to strive for new horizons. We just don't
 from his house every Sunday to
        Whatever  may  be  the  reason  for  it,                have the experience of a life which can
 make  me  understand  the
        blame  it  on  the  drastically  changing               be more sustainable at the onset of any
 Mahabharata  and  a  bit  of
        societal  equations  or  evolving  and                  disaster  and  that's  how  I  remembered
 Sanskrit. He even taught me to be
        more  demanding  needs  of  life,  if  you              my grand father and his zeal to impart
 frugal  in  life,  to  learn  to  invest   may,  the  new  generations  that   the basic skills of life that can at least
 The Lost   money  and  save  a  part  of  my   followed were fast drifting away from   give me an open mind to adopt to any


 income, and leisure for him was
        our core value system.                                  surprises that my world could throw at
 gaining  knowledge  by  reading
 World  our  scriptures  and  classics,   Now,  as  we  stand  facing  an  invisible   me. I wonder how loved we felt when we



 listening  to  good  music;  with  a   terror that is threatening to wipe out   all  cousins  gathered  around  our
 fair amount of physical activity.   our existence and everything that we so   grandmother  in  the  late  evenings  to
 Anindita Bose   He lived till the age of 94; always   dearly value, we are so perplexed and   listen to stories when there was a power


 psychological counsellor  tending to his own needs, never   overwhelmed that we dare not look at   cut. I'm sure we can feel it now too, if
 aninditab.0@gmail.com                                          only we decide to give each other that
 ecstatic  with  joy  or  down  with   the bare reality that is taunting us. We
 remorse,  believing  in  simple   are simply oating in midair, tumbling   time,  away  from  our  social  media
 living and reciting the Bhagavat                               devices.
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